I started getting my hair done by a friend of mine, and at the time, I really didn’t know what a good colorist was. The guy I went to specialized in blonde, and it was an era when blonde ombre was all the rage. Now don’t get me wrong, I loved—and still love—the ombre trend. But as far as blonde is concerned, it’s not a color for me.
I’m a natural very dark brunette, and I still have moderate PTSD from my attempts at chunky blonde highlights in high school. What was I thinking? Anyway, fast-forward, my colorist convinced me to let him do a blonde ombre look. It looked good for a few washes and then became brassy and gross. He then tried it again and it was just bad. It made my skin look washed out. It was just a bad look for me.
For the longest time, I wanted a cool burgundy look. I’d been eyeing a particular hue for years, and when I approached my colorist about it, he insisted it wasn’t a good look and that I should do more blonde. Because I didn’t know any better, I went ahead and made an appointment, but not without apprehension. I went to bed the night before the appointment and had a terrible dream of regret. I texted him the next day and told him I didn’t feel comfortable doing more blonde. I really wanted red. We went back and forth and I told him I just didn’t feel comfortable shelling out money for something I wasn’t entirely keen on.
He had been giving me a friends discount, which was certainly nice, but as they say, you get what you pay for—and I wasn’t getting top-tier work. After much back and forth, he snarkily suggested I go to his rival colorist at the salon. “Maybe she’ll do it for free!” he snapped. I don’t think he was prepared for what happened next, which was me immediately saying, “Okay!”
Following our exchange, I proceeded to go to his rival colorist and have in fact been going to her ever since. I got my dream red hair that I wanted, so I got my happy hair ending, while also kicking my former colorist’s toxic energy to the curb!
It’s hard to believe it’s already almost holiday time! HERE are perfect ponytails to complete your look.